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the simple solution to not spawning in DT, is DONT BE A DICK. like man i've been playing this game for months now, and I havnt been cursed a SINGLE time? Why? you may ask. the answer is simple, dont grief. Dont start stabbing people, dont log on to stay AFK your entire life, dont work to destroy other players HARD WORK. Yes, curses can happen by mistake, but if someone is trying to destroy what everyone else has put HOURS into building, its simply rude to attempt to destroy a town. If the griefers are upset about being sent to their timeout corner, maybe they should rethink their actions and consider how mindlessly destroying towns can upset real people. its rude man. dont grief. I've never once met a person who went around cursing people on a whim, you only get one curse for however long and what if you encounter an actual griefer? If you're cursed for no reason its probably because you took something someone spent their life crafting
but since you are SO wise and know everything, why did I get cursed for saying 'tattoos are hideous' when someone tattooed me against my will. I got 13 curses I believe that time. the tattooer was none other than Post herself, and she managed to turn the entire town against me, when she's the one who tattooed me against my will. So explain to me, how I deserve to be in DT.
Edited to add that before that incident I have never been in DT and have only gotten a curse rarely.
It really isn't hard to not get cursed.. I agree with Tarr on this.
it's easy to GET cursed.....curse you.....literally whoever is closest to you. easy as pie. not getting cursed is easy, avoid the ones who are moving like ADHD on adrenaline.....those ones will curse you for accidentally stepping on 'their' space.
Dodge wrote:It's about intent, if he was eating on purpose to cause harm, grief, with malicious intent then yes he's a griefer.
FishRfriendsnotfood wrote:Bringing a bear or baby boars is griefing. Digging up berry bushes, not griefing.
Is that always true, though? Maybe they're luring out bears to shoot, and have someone waiting with arrows. Maybe they're genuinely trying to raise pigs. Maybe they are digging up important berry bushes and wasting the only shovel.
specifically right there man. totally fine with someone bringing bears to town....cuz hunting? releasing fed baby boars is fine cuz.....pig raising?
but by all means, call me a troll when the evidence stands.
The people who are complaining about the change are the exact demographic the changes were made to effect.
HMMMMM.
I'd say screw'em and leave it as is even if it is too strong considering they're finally getting what they deserve. If I was going to change it I'd leave it as black text for a person for a month, but the blocking only last a week this way people can be forgiven and people who you explicitly know were being asshats you just renew your block on each week.
so what did I do to specifically to 'deserve' DT? you've played with me before, you know my style. Also Tarr I thought you were better than 'herpaderp the people complaining are the ones who deserve it herpaderp'.
karrots you said specifically that releasing fed baby boars on a village and bringing bears to a village isn't griefing. So I wouldn't trust your judgment on anything.
Dodge wrote:It's about intent, if he was eating on purpose to cause harm, grief, with malicious intent then yes he's a griefer.
The problem with this definition is it has no practical application. How do you determine malice? Should we just take your word for it? Do we make baseless assumptions on hunches?
FishRfriendsnotfood wrote:Bringing a bear or baby boars is griefing. Digging up berry bushes, not griefing.
Is that always true, though? Maybe they're luring out bears to shoot, and have someone waiting with arrows. Maybe they're genuinely trying to raise pigs. Maybe they are digging up important berry bushes and wasting the only shovel.
FishRfriendsnotfood wrote:If they want to make a plopping noise with the rubber...who cares. If they want to run on the road in a circle saying 'wheeeeeeee' who cares. They just want attention and if you don't give it, they'll move on to someone that will.
I don't know, that kind of buffoonery can get pretty annoying when you're in the forge trying to work. I could even consider it detrimental to progress when they're being a general waste of space and food.
To answer the original question, there is no real standard for griefing. It depends on the situation. What you should do is ask. If someone is being sus, you should attempt to communicate with them. Have a discussion. What happens after depends on you. You are the judge, jury, and executioner because nobody else will be. You need to make decisions on your own and decide if it's worth killing/cursing them. For the good of your play through and for the good of a town.
Because, well, if you don't make the choice, then who do you think will?
why do you think you need to make that decision. isn't it stressful being such a prig all the time?
Some people get way to bent out of shape about how others play. I've seen people curse AFK folks, babies who /die which doesn't make sense. Cursing without knowing what is going on.
for me personally I let a lot of stuff go because I am not judge, jury and executioner. If they want to make a plopping noise with the rubber...who cares. If they want to run on the road in a circle saying 'wheeeeeeee' who cares. They just want attention and if you don't give it, they'll move on to someone that will.
Bringing a bear or baby boars is griefing. Digging up berry bushes, not griefing.
Too many people are hair triggered by anything. they don't see the 5 bowls of carrot seeds and reeeeeee when you pick the carrots because SEEDs!!!! that's stupid and how can that be fun!? being angry at everyone can't be fun. seeing someone accidentally click and burn a rabbit....and reeeeing about it...can't be fun. seems like it would be stressful as fuck.
but what do I know. I'm only someone that gets Curses so of course I'm 'mad' as the OCD folks would say.
but eating all life....isn't griefing.
The issue I have is cursing is so black and white. if one person curses you in town, 5 others will do so without hearing the reason why first. Curses are magic and shouldn't exist, when nothing else (other than babies just popping out of no where and eveing) is magical. there should be a way to un-curse someone. especially if it was a mistake like 'curse you' goes to the closest person....so I'm sure many people have been mistakenly cursed this way. if there is way to apologize and say ope! that was for lady nora Lola instead of you 'I take back my curse' or some other phrase undoes that error. 30 days is a long time to be DT for being too close to someone when they say 'curse you'. even curse my baby is too vague and able to be exploited. Yes I am in DT but sometimes I'm able to play depending on time. Cursing is just another way to divide an already septic community. 'I don't have any curses so I'm better than you!!!! derpaderpaderp'
damn....he's going to edit it now ?
Why you're curious, you monster. xD
you are so edgy *rolls eyes*
that is one thing I can say I've never done is RP as pedo. I'm curious. why?
How many minutes did it take you to write that spoon
FishRfriendsnotfood wrote:Lovebud wrote:Lol funny coming from a person who pressures a depressed person to commit suicide
no pressure for a sociopath saying 'I'll kill myself lol how about that guys lolz I'll just slit my wrists hahah'
Thats not what i said lmfao i said im sick of life i cant handle living i dont have any money left i have a kid to raise etc etc u told me to go through with it i know you find it funny but ur sick i hope you get the help u need someday
see you hope I get help.....that's nice.
FishRfriendsnotfood wrote:Lovebud wrote:Ur right its the mods fault as i said they didnt want to stop it i wanted this thread to be helpful for some technical issues so i will only respond to comments that have to do with that also to rap things up i just want to say that i was rude to some people like slinkey and i think i did say it before but ill say it again im sorry i didnt mean to it did start of as a misunderstanding lifes to short to be mad at someone nothing is worth it as i said i do like to sleep with clean conscious i dont really mean anything i said im sure ur actually very beautiful
And fish go to hell i dont feel bad for you ur disgusting your sick ur in donkey town twice now hmmm i wonder why maybe cuz people dont like u in the game !!! Cuz ur annoying and twisted
You got cursed four times in ur last village "dear" even if ur not in donkey town it means ur really not wanted around
so why are you so worried about me if I'm so disgusting and sick? ewwwww omg it's the old lady....that's the closest you can come to an insult. I also don't care if people like or don't, I dont need attention or validation like you do. I also don't need anyone to feel bad for me, I'm grown and can fully function. I'd like to take this moment and say....I love you. keep being you. never change.
Lol funny coming from a person who pressures a depressed person to commit suicide
no pressure for a sociopath saying 'I'll kill myself lol how about that guys lolz I'll just slit my wrists hahah'
sigmen4020 wrote:Does this thread hold any value anymore? The thread has obviously devolved into pointless bickering that has nothing to do with the game...
Ur right its the mods fault as i said they didnt want to stop it i wanted this thread to be helpful for some technical issues so i will only respond to comments that have to do with that also to rap things up i just want to say that i was rude to some people like slinkey and i think i did say it before but ill say it again im sorry i didnt mean to it did start of as a misunderstanding lifes to short to be mad at someone nothing is worth it as i said i do like to sleep with clean conscious i dont really mean anything i said im sure ur actually very beautiful
And fish go to hell i dont feel bad for you ur disgusting your sick ur in donkey town twice now hmmm i wonder why maybe cuz people dont like u in the game !!! Cuz ur annoying and twisted
You got cursed four times in ur last village "dear" even if ur not in donkey town it means ur really not wanted around
so why are you so worried about me if I'm so disgusting and sick? ewwwww omg it's the old lady....that's the closest you can come to an insult. I also don't care if people like or don't, I dont need attention or validation like you do. I also don't need anyone to feel bad for me, I'm grown and can fully function. I'd like to take this moment and say....I love you. keep being you. never change.
I would like there to be bats to increase the danger, but maybe that's for another day!
FishRfriendsnotfood wrote:Lovebud wrote:Also slinkey and the others didnt really dm me and told me commit suicide when i was feeling suicidal you were begging.me.to kill myself before even knowing ur twisted
I don't argue with people that have no conscience. just giving you an fyi that you shouldn't be surprised that people hate you, when you behave this way. I'm not surprised spoonwood hates me....I can't stand him either, in fact he has a 40 post complaint about me on github. I'm not going to claim that I didn't say that to you because I probably did, but I have proof of the things you've sent me and I don't think you can say the same. But yet you don't take responsibility for your behavior. you're not a saint. just take ownership of the fact you are an awful person.
I did admit what i did i was rude to slinkey but you are a terrible disgusting person who claims people are sadists but ur the saddest person ive ever seen begging someone to kill themselves i remember the sec i went on discord before people knowing me you called me a whore and i was telling people i tried commitng suicide you said why didnt you go through with it lol and you call me terrible ? And to make urself feel better u said i have no kid just cuz u didnt wanna imagine telling a single mom to commit suicide makes you seem more shitty doesn't it? Well you are a shitty terrible person everyone else is better then you idc if everyone else hates me as long as i can put my head in bed knowing the worse thing i did was just grief ur disgusting to even defend urself
I actually have never wasted that much time on you, nor would I call anyone a whore....everybody here knows I'm not of such a low intelligence to call someone something so banal as a whore. I also don't care if you have a kid. in fact I really don't care what you say period, I just think it's funny you still claim to be the victim when you actively hunt people down via their DMs (I have your attempts at insulting me saved in my emails dear). I'm not sure why you keep belly aching over trying to kill yourself when you were saying lolz the whole time you 'claim' to be depressed. but by all means continue the uneducated responses.
also I'm not in DT dear....ewwww as you would say.
Lovebud wrote:FishRfriendsnotfood wrote:actually you do still grief, you grief curses and purposefully send people to donkey. you are a sociopath and a sadist who enjoys inflicting grief onto others. even imaginary others on a made up game. you make claims that others hold a grudge when you actively look for these people and try to slide into their personal real life DMs. I'm not sure why being this way satisfies you, but by all means, don't act like you don't deserve it.
Lmfao i will not give you any attention you personally told me and msg'd me to kill myself ur the sociopath ur disgusting i dont even wanna talk to you also you cant go to donkey town unless you.get alot of votes and you were voted out the village for a reason you were grifing and destroying the town with ur friend everyone wanted you out and stop talking to me ur very sick i actually dont mind slinkey or others theyre ok i was rude to them so i understand why theyre being mean also theyre young i understand theyre anger but you are a very disgusting person who only has hate and wants to see everyone else miserable because you are dont ever text me again
Also slinkey and the others didnt really dm me and told me commit suicide when i was feeling suicidal you were begging.me.to kill myself before even knowing ur twisted
I don't argue with people that have no conscience. just giving you an fyi that you shouldn't be surprised that people hate you, when you behave this way. I'm not surprised spoonwood hates me....I can't stand him either, in fact he has a 40 post complaint about me on github. I'm not going to claim that I didn't say that to you because I probably did, but I have proof of the things you've sent me and I don't think you can say the same. But yet you don't take responsibility for your behavior. you're not a saint. just take ownership of the fact you are an awful person.
Dodge wrote:fug wrote:Being an incredibly shitty human being and a pest to the community doesn't exactly earn you a lot of friends hence why literally one person besides Jason offered her help. Post is banned on multiple accounts in the discord for a reason hence why she has to ask on the forums lel.
Idc about your petty discord drama, the post is about asking help for technical issues.
Thank you <3 its ok theyre petty that i grifed in a game even thou im not grieffing anymore im.actually helping out alot in the game but hey theyre just kids who hold grudges over games they have alot of growing up to do if they cant.let.go of a grudge over a game
actually you do still grief, you grief curses and purposefully send people to donkey. you are a sociopath and a sadist who enjoys inflicting grief onto others. even imaginary others on a made up game. you make claims that others hold a grudge when you actively look for these people and try to slide into their personal real life DMs. I'm not sure why being this way satisfies you, but by all means, don't act like you don't deserve it.
I can get behind this! Many ways to play, not one size fits them all. Sometimes it needs to be said.
Jason, I have been thinking about this for some time. I would love bats in the game. Since this animal update will make the dangerous animals more dangerous, how about bats as an anti griefer method? If you engage a bear cave, there should be a probability of spawning bats, who swoop down and give you rabies, also the risk is the bear then getting rabies and becoming unpredictable and harder to kill. Just thought I'd throw that out there. Unless there is a more appropriate place to make suggestions.
I'm just wondering why someone who is so staunchly against the metoo movement, gives a shit at all on the 'morals' of a.fucking.game.
In a game where you can only hold one item in your hands, spoon is using the logic that if one didn't have a moral issue with baby bones, they would simply hold them for 2 minutes.
Ha, this is hilarious! Not one single person held SIDS baby and was like, shucks this is a moral dilemma.
FishRfriendsnotfood wrote:It's useless to get into any sort of interaction with spoon. He is part of a group named 'friends of protection for men'. Then wants to compare this game's birthing mechanics to getting raped. So he's clearly not a being capable of rational thought.
Ok but what is the relation between a game mechanic and real life ? I mean, who cares ? It's a game right ?
That's why I said he is not capable of rational thought.
It's useless to get into any sort of interaction with spoon. He is part of a group named 'friends of protection for men'. Then wants to compare this game's birthing mechanics to getting raped. So he's clearly not a being capable of rational thought.